Let Me Set My Own Boundaries

If you’re reading this, thanks already.

Today I have a small, yet very firm, request to share as I excitedly take on more “office hours” and a heavier workload since having my second daughter.

K𝗢𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗼𝗳 π˜π—΅π—² π˜‚π—»π—Άπ˜ƒπ—²π—Ώπ˜€π—²: LET ME SET MY OWN BOUNDARIES πŸ€—β£
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As lovely as it is to see my PF4U Family giving grace to me during the postpartum period: this cautiousness of others towards my energy has me feeling all out of whack πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈβ£
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Hear me out: ⁣
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❌As a client of mine, it is not your responsibility to make sure I am leaving time in my schedule for you. ⁣
❌As a client of mine, it is not your responsibility to avoid asking a question, sending a text or compiling an email to save my energy. ⁣
❌As a client of mine, it is not your responsibility to take care of me or to accept less of my energy when you deserve it. ⁣
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𝗛𝗒π—ͺπ—˜π—©π—˜π—₯, π—Άπ˜ π—œπ—¦ π˜†π—Όπ˜‚π—Ώ π—Ώπ—²π˜€π—½π—Όπ—»π˜€π—Άπ—―π—Άπ—Ήπ—Άπ˜π˜† π˜π—Ό:⁣
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βœ”οΈCommunicate what you need when you need it.⁣
βœ”οΈAsk questions whenever you’re curious.⁣
βœ”οΈBook phone calls when necessary. ⁣
βœ”οΈBe clear about what I can do to help you. ⁣
βœ”οΈLet me help in whatever capacity I can. ⁣
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As heartwarming as it is to see my PF4U clients tiptoe around asking or needing more from me lately because I “recently had a baby and didn’t take a lot of time off of work”: IT NEEDS TO STOP βœ‹πŸΌβ£
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I pride myself on setting miraculous boundaries and executing solid self care: if I am working with you and opening my arms and business to serve you: LET ME SERVE YOU: no strings attached, no softness. ⁣
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Please know, it is MY responsibility to ensure I can be a great business owner, coach and mom: NOT YOURS (and I say this in the nicest way possible).⁣
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So before I get more emails stating β€œreply when you can” or β€œonly if there is time for you” or β€œI know you’re busy with the girls” or β€œI want to hire you but I know this transition is crazy”- THANK YOU, BUT… ⁣
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I want all my clients to take ownership for what they need from me, speak up when they need it, and demand the best coaching possible: because THAT is how transformation occurs. ⁣
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I’ll keep my boundaries on lock down.⁣
You continue to speak up. ⁣

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