If you’re reading this, thanks already.
Today I have a small, yet very firm, request to share as I excitedly take on more “office hours” and a heavier workload since having my second daughter.
KπΆπ»π± π½π²πΌπ½πΉπ² πΌπ³ ππ΅π² ππ»πΆππ²πΏππ²: LET ME SET MY OWN BOUNDARIES π€β£
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As lovely as it is to see my PF4U Family giving grace to me during the postpartum period: this cautiousness of others towards my energy has me feeling all out of whack π€¦ββοΈβ£
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Hear me out: β£
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βAs a client of mine, it is not your responsibility to make sure I am leaving time in my schedule for you. β£
βAs a client of mine, it is not your responsibility to avoid asking a question, sending a text or compiling an email to save my energy. β£
βAs a client of mine, it is not your responsibility to take care of me or to accept less of my energy when you deserve it. β£
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ππ’πͺππ©ππ₯, πΆπ ππ¦ ππΌππΏ πΏπ²ππ½πΌπ»ππΆπ―πΆπΉπΆππ ππΌ:β£
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βοΈCommunicate what you need when you need it.β£
βοΈAsk questions whenever youβre curious.β£
βοΈBook phone calls when necessary. β£
βοΈBe clear about what I can do to help you. β£
βοΈLet me help in whatever capacity I can. β£
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As heartwarming as it is to see my PF4U clients tiptoe around asking or needing more from me lately because I “recently had a baby and didn’t take a lot of time off of workβ: IT NEEDS TO STOP βπΌβ£
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I pride myself on setting miraculous boundaries and executing solid self care: if I am working with you and opening my arms and business to serve you: LET ME SERVE YOU: no strings attached, no softness. β£
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Please know, it is MY responsibility to ensure I can be a great business owner, coach and mom: NOT YOURS (and I say this in the nicest way possible).β£
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So before I get more emails stating βreply when you canβ or βonly if there is time for youβ or βI know youβre busy with the girlsβ or βI want to hire you but I know this transition is crazyβ- THANK YOU, BUT… β£
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I want all my clients to take ownership for what they need from me, speak up when they need it, and demand the best coaching possible: because THAT is how transformation occurs. β£
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Iβll keep my boundaries on lock down.β£
You continue to speak up. β£
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